adminMarriage, love, and romance are some of the most common themes people seek guidance on. As a channeler and therapist, I have worked with many clients who ask: When will I find love? Will my marriage improve? Am I meant for a happily ever after?
Society and movies have shaped our expectations of romance, love, and marriage, but the reality is much deeper. Your marriage is often a reflection of your childhood wounds and your relationship with your parents. Until you heal these wounds, they will continue to surface—not just in your marriage, but in your career, finances, health, and other aspects of life. Let’s dive deep into understanding the true essence of romance, love, and marriage.
What Is Romance?
Romance is often an attempt to fulfill unmet childhood needs. As children, we experience moments when our parents fail to meet our expectations, leading to emotional wounds such as abandonment, unworthiness, and victimhood. In response, our inner child makes a promise to find a way to meet these needs in adulthood.
Some people develop hyper-independence, choosing to meet these needs themselves, while others seek fulfilment through a partner, leading to codependency. In essence, romance becomes a quest to recreate an idealised version of the parents we wished we had.
However, romance is inherently temporary. During courtship, partners unconsciously play the roles our inner child craves, but this is not sustainable in the long run. Eventually, reality sets in, and the idealized illusion fades.
What Is Love?
Love, as understood through the heart chakra, is a blend of compassion, empathy, and kindness. On a practical level, love is about care and support—whether it resembles a mother’s nurturing presence or a father’s guidance and protection.
Many people unconsciously seek partners who fulfill the parental roles they lacked. If you grew up taking care of your parents, you might attract relationships where you are the caregiver. This dynamic can create a cycle where love feels more like responsibility than mutual growth.
To explore the deeper nature of love, I offer a Heart Chakra Healing Course that helps you shift from conditional love to a more balanced and fulfilling experience.
What Is Marriage?
Marriage is a transformative journey that goes beyond romance and love. Unlike courtship, marriage is not just about making your partner happy or seeking a parental figure—it’s about partnership, accountability, and shared growth.
Marriage is a sacred container where your deepest wounds are mirrored back to you daily. It is not about endless compromises or suppressing your needs but rather a call to heal and evolve. The conflicts you face in marriage are not signs of failure; they are opportunities to confront and transform the emotional baggage you’ve carried for years.
You may feel disappointed because your partner doesn’t match the idealized version in your mind. The truth is, no human can fully embody the divine feminine or masculine energy you may subconsciously expect. Instead, the key to a soul-led marriage lies in communication, self-awareness, and mutual growth. The way you express your needs, listen to your partner, and find realistic middle ground determines whether your marriage becomes a journey of transformation or stagnation.
Ultimately, marriage is about who you are becoming through the process. Like a diamond, your soul undergoes immense pressure and refinement to reveal its true brilliance. The question to ask yourself is: Do I want to use marriage as a path to self-discovery and spiritual evolution?
Marriage is not meant to elude you, nor is it something to endlessly seek solutions for or escape from. At its core, it is a profound tool for spiritual growth—one that reflects your soul’s journey toward divine union. However, when you make the tool itself the ultimate goal, it can feel overwhelming, as if it controls your destiny. The key is to reclaim your power by shifting your focus inward. When you prioritize your personal evolution and surrender to your soul’s path, everything else aligns naturally. Trust that your soul knows the way, and as you walk this journey with awareness, the right relationships, lessons, and experiences will unfold in divine timing.
How I Can Support You on This Journey
If you are ready to deepen your understanding of romance, love, and marriage and how it ties to your soul journey, here’s how I can help:
Energy Reading: Gain insights into your romantic and marital journey through an intuitive energy reading.
Inner Child Healing: If you recognize recurring patterns in your relationships, inner child healing can help shift your energy and release past wounds.
Heart Chakra Course: Learn how to cultivate unconditional love and emotional balance in your relationships.
Manifesting Love Course: A deep journey into understanding what love means to you and how to attract a partner for the same.
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Wishing you love and self-discovery on this sacred journey!