{"id":34,"date":"2017-07-18T17:01:00","date_gmt":"2017-07-18T17:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lensq.com\/?p=34"},"modified":"2017-07-18T17:01:00","modified_gmt":"2017-07-18T17:01:00","slug":"12-books-which-made-me-a-better-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lensq.com\/index.php\/2017\/07\/18\/12-books-which-made-me-a-better-person\/","title":{"rendered":"12 Books which made me a better person"},"content":{"rendered":"<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #333333; font-family: Georgia;\"><span style=\"font-size: 18.6667px; white-space: pre-wrap;\">Books leave an imprint on our lives. When you don&#8217;t have direct access to mentors, they take up that role and do a wonderful job. The following books have been a mentor for me:<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #333333; font-family: Georgia;\"><span style=\"font-size: 18.6667px; white-space: pre-wrap;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>1) Thinking fast and slow:<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\">By Daniel Kahneman<\/b><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lensq.com\/t0hi\" rel=\"nofollow\">Print Copy<\/a><\/b><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">It exposes you to all the cognitive biases. Even though you think you are right about a decision, you don\u2019t realise that it is the cognitive bias which is making you go for it. You end up spending more when you swipe credit card than in cash. You tend to buy an item on discount because of anchoring effect. You don\u2019t stop investing even if you are losing because of sunken cost fallacy. And there are many more biases which you are not aware of.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>2)Last lecture: <\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">This is one such book which I did not want it to end. I liked the amazing attitude of the author and the life lessons he has written. If you are not as awesome as he is, you will learn from him. If you are already awesome, you will love yourself more.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>3)Never split the difference: <\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">If not for this book, I would have never understood that I was about to fall into a negotiation trap. You might also save yourself from a trap some time in the future if you understand the basics of negotiation.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>4)Art of learning:<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">College is not just meant to mug up the subject and present it during tests. Learning should be deep and ever lasting. Josh Waitzkin writes about what learning is all about through his stories on learning chess. It made me feel nostalgic.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>5)How to win friends and influence people: <\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">It is never late to start making friends. I read this book in the first year of my college. It helped a lot in socializing.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>6)Grit:<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">You are in the eternal conflict of pursuing things you are good at versus passion. This book gives you clarity on what really matters in the long term.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>7)The one thing: <\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">There might be 100 things you want to do in life. This book tells you that one thing if done in right way can become a substitute for the remaining 99.<\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>8)13 things mentally strong people don\u2019t do:<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">You might be the smartest person in your circle, but if you are not mentally strong. you will not be able to reap the benefits of your smartness.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>9)Power of habit: <\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">You are a product of your habits. This book tells you the science behind breaking and making a habit.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>10)The art of thinking clearly: <\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">In our daily decisions, we make a lot of cognitive mistakes. This book tells you which ones to avoid and which ones to stick with.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>11)Reawaken the giant within: <\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<p><b style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">This book makes you think about your values and how you can use them to live life to the fullest.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b>12)Fountain Head by Ayn Rand:<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">It gave me a totally different perspective about life. This book will make you think about yourself and ponder on life. Even though Ayn Rand is difficult to read, it is worth the efforts.<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;\"><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><b><i>Happy reading!<\/i><\/b><\/span><span style=\"background-color: transparent; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 14pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;\"><br class=\"kix-line-break\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Books leave an imprint on our lives. When you don&#8217;t have direct access to mentors, they take up that role and do a wonderful job. 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